Give and Take

This is from my readings a week or so ago. I was going to post then, but time got away from me...

Oswald Chambers has this to say about receiving the gift God has for us:

THE BOUNTY OF THE DESTITUTE

"Being justified freely by His grace. . ." Romans 3:24The Gospel of the grace of God awakens an intense longing in human souls and an equally intense resentment, because the revelation which it brings is not palatable. There is a certain pride in man that will give and give, but to come and accept is another thing. I will give my life to martyrdom, I will give myself in consecration, I will do anything, but do not humiliate me to the level of the most hell-deserving sinner and tell me that all I have to do is to accept the gift of salvation through Jesus Christ.We have to realize that we cannot earn or win anything from God; we must either receive it as a gift or do without it. The greatest blessing spiritually is the knowledge that we are destitute; until we get there Our Lord is powerless. He can do nothing for us if we think we are sufficient of ourselves, we have to enter into His Kingdom through the door of destitution. As long as we are rich, possessed of anything in the way of pride or independence, God cannot do anything for us. It is only when we get hungry spiritually that we receive the Holy Spirit. The gift of the essential nature of God is made effectual in us by the Holy Spirit, He imparts to us the quickening life of Jesus, which puts "the beyond" within, and immediately "the beyond" has come within, it rises up to "the above," and we are lifted into the domain where Jesus lives. (John 3:5.)

We are certainly in this place right now and rather than getting better, the situation is slowly worsening. Oswald states that in order to recive the gift, you must be in a place where there is nothing you can do to earn it. That means to me that you pretty much need to be out of resources with no way to get more under your own power.

This is where Henry Blackaby steps in:

THE GIFT OF ENCOURAGEMENT

Yet I considered it necessary to send to you Epaphroditus, my brother, fellow worker, and fellow soldier, but your messenger and the one who ministered to my need. (Philippians 2:25)Some people know just what to say and do to encourage others who are going through difficult times. Their words give strength to those who are discouraged and comfort to those who are grieving. These people are sensitive to God’s voice. They are not self-centered or unaware of the struggles of those around them. They are the ones we immediately seek when we enter a crisis. They are welcome visitors when we are in distress, for their presence sustains us.Scripture testifies of many whom God enabled to encourage others. When Moses was overwhelmed_by his work, Jethro went to him and encouraged him. Jethro gave Moses wise counsel that eased his strain (Exod. 18:1–27). When Paul was imprisoned far from those who loved him, Epaphroditus risked his health and safety in order to go to Paul and minister to him (Phil. 2:25–30). Later, Paul urged Timothy to come and visit him, for Paul found strength and encouragement in Timothy (2 Tim. 4:9; Phil. 2:19–20). Paul asked Timothy to bring Mark also. Mark was the kind of friend Paul needed when he was enduring hardship (2 Tim. 4:11; Philem. 24). Paul also relied on Luke for encouragement. When everyone else was absent or preoccupied, Luke could be found with Paul (2 Tim. 4:11). Paul experienced trials throughout his life, but God sustained him by placing godly friends around him who provided support in practical and sacrificial ways.

It is a give and take relationship after all. In order to support and help someone, there must be a need. The needer must be willing to acknowledge their need in order to receive the help, and the giver must be bold enough to offer. It is so amazing the way God provides the perfect place, time and circumstances for all of this to line up and come together for the mutual benefit of both the giver and receiver. I am humbled to be on the receiving end of all, that those we are close to, are providing. I am humbled to be used as a tool in order that others may be obedient to the Lord's prompting, whether it is in providing prayer, a job, or simply a shoulder to cry on and an ear to listen. The practical and the sacrificial. I love you all, and I love our mighty God and the lessons he has for us all in our separate journeys toward becoming more like Him...